The side effects of avoiding conflict
Emotion is energy in motion. Anger and frustration are like charged particles, perturbating.
They have to go somewhere.
In our desperation to keep peace, not rock the boat, stay safe from the force of anger that might become enraged or violent, we shallow our own anger.
And it then ricochets inside our being and we become the damaged goods. Literally…long term swallowed anger will create legitimate health issues.
We start a war within.
Do this multiple times and our interiors are the battle ground. We do not trust ourselves. Our interior conversation is the clash of the titans. The world out there is seen through the blurred vision of our own conflict.
A charged situation is best addressed when it first arises in our awareness. The micro charge. If not, it will escalate.
We have choices. Voice it towards neutralisation for all. (See the Speak the Truth ebook for a process to do this with mutual dignity.) Let it go from our being completely. Do nothing with the potential for escalation. Or swallow it and have our interior become the battle ground.
Photo taken July 3rd, 2014
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About Dr Christine McDougall
A STEWARD TO MAP MAKERS – TO ENTREPRENEURS AND LEADERS WHO ARE WRITING THE NEW MAPS FOR THEIR ENTERPRISE FOR A WORLD WITH A FUTURE
Christine is an internationally recognised facilitator, practitioner, teacher coach, and authority in integrative systems design, human relational design, deep wealth design and regenerative enterprises. She has held large multi-stakeholder initiatives towards a better future or all, managing diversity, complexity and various stages of human development.
As the principal of 2:23AM – She works with leaders and enterprises globally who have a commitment to being the pioneers of enterprise change. Christine has the ability to completely re-imagine business, its role in our world, and its potential for a future for all humans. She experiences a deeper level of truth than most through applying synergetics (Buckminster Fuller’s anticipatory design science), and has a way of articulating this so others can see it as well. Christine questions the most basic assumptions that drive our complex systems and can map that back to what is needed today. She is committed to the creation of one million (to start) Syntropic enterprises = enterprises that enable a higher order. By nature they evoke gravity (attraction) and coherence towards an eternally regenerative Universe.
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