Imagine approaching everything in life as a grand experiment. A constant process of refinement to move towards greater harmony. And since the playing field is also constantly changing, there is no there.
There is always and only play. This works, this doesn’t. Adjust, repeat. A state of forever beta.
The trouble comes when we get fixated on a way of being or doing. Or fixated on another person never changing.
We become old when we stop approaching life as the grand experiment. It has little to do with biology.
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